Firearm forum poll. An "OT" poll.
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Firearm forum poll. An "OT" poll.
Will all the hubbub about Off Topic posts, here is my question:
How many of you come to this website/forum and ONLY this forum?
I ask this because as I look over many of the OT threads we have running, I see that they are the same thread topics that are on The Ruger forum, the Sig Forum, the S&W forum, the Firing Line, The High Road, AR.15, the Gunbroker forums... etc, etc. My point being, if these same topics are being beat to death on all these other forums (by many of the same people) what is the great need to duplicate them here as well?
I guess my point is, why do people insist on making every place exactly the same? Every store doesn't have to be Wal-Mart. Every forum doesn't have to be the "Everything I want to talk about" forum.
Grumble grumble grumble.
How many of you come to this website/forum and ONLY this forum?
I ask this because as I look over many of the OT threads we have running, I see that they are the same thread topics that are on The Ruger forum, the Sig Forum, the S&W forum, the Firing Line, The High Road, AR.15, the Gunbroker forums... etc, etc. My point being, if these same topics are being beat to death on all these other forums (by many of the same people) what is the great need to duplicate them here as well?
I guess my point is, why do people insist on making every place exactly the same? Every store doesn't have to be Wal-Mart. Every forum doesn't have to be the "Everything I want to talk about" forum.
Grumble grumble grumble.
Slow is just slow.
I guess my first question to your statement is whether or not it's the same people asking the same questions in all the forums.
If it's not, I'd suggest that perhaps many gun-owners and enthusiasts have the same questions, and maybe we're not gettin' the word out.
If it is, I'd congratulate them on their effort and ask them to stop spamming every forum they go to.
I visit several forums related to leverguns and political issues, and sometimes I see the same folks posting the same things. Maybe they think that they are the only ones who walk on that particular path and feel like they just gotta share.
If it's not, I'd suggest that perhaps many gun-owners and enthusiasts have the same questions, and maybe we're not gettin' the word out.
If it is, I'd congratulate them on their effort and ask them to stop spamming every forum they go to.
I visit several forums related to leverguns and political issues, and sometimes I see the same folks posting the same things. Maybe they think that they are the only ones who walk on that particular path and feel like they just gotta share.
Government office attracts the power-mad, yet it's people who just want to be left alone to live life on their own terms who are considered dangerous.
History teaches that it's a small window in which people can fight back before it is too dangerous to fight back.
History teaches that it's a small window in which people can fight back before it is too dangerous to fight back.
Just an observation.
People are happiest where they are free to speak their minds and air what concerns them openly. It doesn't always make sense. It doesn't please everyone all the time, but it is what freedom is all about. And concerns about freedom are what a lot of people on this and other similar sites have on their minds right now.
To the degree that speach is limited by mgrs, that happiness declines and people will find another venue to express themselves. Which may explain why their are similar threads on similar sites.
Be glad that people are happy to spend their free time on this site. It means they are comfortable. I can't think of a greater wish, on the part of a web mgr, to be fulfilled. With any luck members wont leave this site for another where they can speak their minds on diverse subjects freely and openly.
People are happiest where they are free to speak their minds and air what concerns them openly. It doesn't always make sense. It doesn't please everyone all the time, but it is what freedom is all about. And concerns about freedom are what a lot of people on this and other similar sites have on their minds right now.
To the degree that speach is limited by mgrs, that happiness declines and people will find another venue to express themselves. Which may explain why their are similar threads on similar sites.
Be glad that people are happy to spend their free time on this site. It means they are comfortable. I can't think of a greater wish, on the part of a web mgr, to be fulfilled. With any luck members wont leave this site for another where they can speak their minds on diverse subjects freely and openly.
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I have to confess, this the only forum I go to.
Sometimes people wierd out, and I just back out.
I really do feel like the tone will change after the election, there was a post awhile back; a forum member felt " something " in the air.
There is something in the air, BUT IT WILL PASS.
Lets all hang together, for seperatly; we will surely all hang.
Sometimes people wierd out, and I just back out.
I really do feel like the tone will change after the election, there was a post awhile back; a forum member felt " something " in the air.
There is something in the air, BUT IT WILL PASS.
Lets all hang together, for seperatly; we will surely all hang.
I used to spend a lot of time on a some other forums (High Road & The Firing Line). They were the first ones I'd found. After a year or two I got tired of the EOTWAWKI rehashes along with bashing one group or another.
I found this place and visited the others less and less. It's probably been a couple of years since I've been to the others. I'd be surprised if they are any different now than then.
I hope we can keep this place from going the same direction.
I found this place and visited the others less and less. It's probably been a couple of years since I've been to the others. I'd be surprised if they are any different now than then.
I hope we can keep this place from going the same direction.
This is it. I get emails of active posts from the Cast Bullet Association. I search other forums for info. I don't have time to post on multiple forums. I like this one and y'all.
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This is one of three I frequent.
in my experience there has always been a wide range of subjects discussed here & its usually pretty civil given that fact. I like it just fine as it is.
Every forum has a slightly different atmosphere & I'm sure you dont get the same answers to the same questions everywhere. I never found every place to be exactly the same, other than being inhabitated by people.
in my experience there has always been a wide range of subjects discussed here & its usually pretty civil given that fact. I like it just fine as it is.
Every forum has a slightly different atmosphere & I'm sure you dont get the same answers to the same questions everywhere. I never found every place to be exactly the same, other than being inhabitated by people.
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I have no issue with off topic post provided that it doesnt incite an arguement. THOSE GET OLD. Other than that as long as a question is genuinely being asked without a secondary motive then I can be patient enough to deal with it. It may also sound a little on the far side, but we dont have to open every thread. Rather than sound off on a question, let it die and move further down the page so it is forgotten.
Although I frequently peruse a number of forums, and have seen the same posts by the same members, this is the only forum where I take the time to respond on a regular basis. On the others, I may ask a question on a particular subject (like CAS or Ruger gunsmithing) or buy something from the classifieds. But this is the only one where I enter into discussions and offer opinions.
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Re: Firearm forum pole. An "OT" pole.
I do.cas wrote:How many of you come to this website/forum and ONLY this forum?
... I love poetry, long walks on the beach, and poking dead things with a stick.
I'm up and down on three or four forums, but mostly the classified sections.
Unless it's a question I'm in a hurry for an answer then I just keep it to one forum.
But sometimes, if what I post has relevance (levers/rimfire/gunsmithing) on a couple of forums then I'll post on both.
But I generally don't have much to complain about.
Unless it's a question I'm in a hurry for an answer then I just keep it to one forum.
But sometimes, if what I post has relevance (levers/rimfire/gunsmithing) on a couple of forums then I'll post on both.
But I generally don't have much to complain about.
...and I don't think he even knows it...Walks around with a half-assed grin...If he feels fear, he don't show it. Just rides into hell and back again.
Unless the owner decided different, the group dynamic is going to rule. Unless I miss my guess, by the number and quality of people visiting and posting, this site is healthy as heck and will continue to grow and prosper in spite of a couple speed bumps. Perhaps, maybe, there are some control issues going on that Dr Fill could help you with, Sir
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i go to other forums also.
i come here to talk about and look at lever guns
as i have several 92's a 95 a 71 a marlin etc...
when i go to the other sites i go there to talk about the subject for
that forum.
however there is some crossover between forums which is a good
thing it is called networking.
if you got a queston on how or why someone who is a bit more
specialized on the subject probably will get it answered better.
i come here to talk about and look at lever guns
as i have several 92's a 95 a 71 a marlin etc...
when i go to the other sites i go there to talk about the subject for
that forum.
however there is some crossover between forums which is a good
thing it is called networking.
if you got a queston on how or why someone who is a bit more
specialized on the subject probably will get it answered better.
I do about 80%of my online stuff here .
I do go to Greybeard outdoors, and Cast boolits. I have seen the same questions by the same people at the different sites
SOME of it comes from people knowing that there are people who ONLY frequent one site and they are trying to solicit as much information as they can by reaching people on the other sites as well as this site . OTHERS are only trying to stir up trouble on any site they can just for the halibut .
I do NOT look at a majority of the OT topics I pick and choose and if it does not pertain to me or I know i have no specific information and coud care less I do not look at that Ot subject. Thats why the OT subjects dont bother me at all , put as manyof them on as you want , I just wont look at OR RESPOND TO any im not interested in .
I do go to Greybeard outdoors, and Cast boolits. I have seen the same questions by the same people at the different sites
SOME of it comes from people knowing that there are people who ONLY frequent one site and they are trying to solicit as much information as they can by reaching people on the other sites as well as this site . OTHERS are only trying to stir up trouble on any site they can just for the halibut .
I do NOT look at a majority of the OT topics I pick and choose and if it does not pertain to me or I know i have no specific information and coud care less I do not look at that Ot subject. Thats why the OT subjects dont bother me at all , put as manyof them on as you want , I just wont look at OR RESPOND TO any im not interested in .
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I see a lot of political/2A posts that get around. This has been the most powerfull weapon we have ever had, ever, against the anti-gun anti-hunting crowd and is the reason they have lost momentum. Stifling that would be idiotic at best.
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I have to agree. Repitition is boring but it helps to ensure that EVERY possible person is given the information necessary.sore shoulder wrote:I see a lot of political/2A posts that get around. This has been the most powerfull weapon we have ever had, ever, against the anti-gun anti-hunting crowd and is the reason they have lost momentum. Stifling that would be idiotic at best.
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In order of preference; here, SASS Wire, Shiloh, CAS City, Cast Boolits, The Gunfighter Zone, The Frontier Spot. On almost all of the others on a read only basis, and only post on "on topic" issues. Don't feel as comfortable on them, even the SASS site, as most of those folks are new and have no use for someone that liked it the way it was, as IMNSHO, change for change sakes is of little value.
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There is a fine line between hobby & obsession!
AND... I'm over it!!
No I ain't ready, but let's do it anyway!
Usually when I get on the computer, I come here, Cast boolits(noticed some of you there) and usually the Harley/Davidson forum. Sometimes I will sneak over to Greybeards, the Valkyrie forum, AR.15 and the 1919a4 sites, but the first three are 99% of my surfing. The best is HERE!
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This is the first forum I go to daily. Then GB's site to check out the Reloader's Forum. Just look at the number of new posts and replies daily and you will see how successful this forum is! Politics and OT posts seem to fit right in. I hope you are not suggesting a change!
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I only come here, This is my gun fill. I also have region specific forums for fishing and hunting. I have been a member on other forums but I have now found out that there are more very gun savy members per capita on this forum than any other. I like the "small town" gun store attitude where the talk mainly focuses on firearms but changes seasonly to politics, hunting, fishing, family affairs. I mean how many other forums out there can you post a prayer request and get such a great outcome where other members are seriously concerned? I feel like I have known you guys for years but have only met a few of you in person. Thanks for the best gun forum on the net!!!
Break on through to the other side!!!
Usually here, I like the wide variety of topics that are discussed, plus all the friendly people that are willing to put up with someone who doesn't have a lot of knowledge concerning lever guns, I have learned a lot since coming here, and my gratitude to you all. Occasionally the sixshooter site, the one that took sixgunner.com place......but doesn't seem to me to be as much activity there as on leverguns.
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I check in here almost every day, and a few others on guns or other topics of interest on a more intermittent basis.
I agree with Hobie on the need to spread political information - the Second Amendment essentially is "ON TOPIC" by its very nature, and whether we enjoy it or not or find it depressing sometimes, the political stuff HAS to be dealt with constantly.
Having said that, I agree that ALL posts should refrain from hostility and so on. That isn't too much to ask. I don't think the "rules" need changed though, because just like the TV, there is a channel (thread) selector, and you don't have to open threads you may be irritated by.
Ideally, we'd all be conscientious about using clearer topic descriptions than "Guess What...?" and using "OT" in the title for the non-lever-gun stuff, and, but really, if you just want to read about Winnies and Marlins, and you see a topic labeled "Best Barbeque Recipe," or "Why the Mayor is a Total Idiot," you might figure they aren't about leverguns. Just don't read them. Besides, is a topic on Revolvers "OT" or not, or just "Partly OT" - what if the revolver isn't in a levergun chambering? It could get pretty ridiculous if we micromanage it. Just read the titles of the posts...!
Personally, I know I am a newbie, but I am also a fairly frequent poster, and I don't find the restrictions overly strict (I've learned a couple of the 'words Daddy uses when he's doing plumbing or fixing the mower' I need to remember to avoid using, which is OK - as stated, it should be a 'family' friendly forum). I think forums with topics overly segregated are annoying though.
Think of it like this - a campfire on a wagon train or trail drive or some such. We all have our jobs each day to do, our own quirks to put up with, but we're all really on the 'same page' about most stuff. Most of the talk here centers around leverguns, but once in awhile someone's going to bring up another topic....
If you are interested in that topic, participate in the conversation, if not, that's a good time to go take a leak, check on your horse, or whatever. The next topic/thread may be of more interest.
As far as the 'tone' - there is a fairly easy difference between a 'heated' topic and 'personal attacks' - We've all been in situations where we just had to 'back off' to avoid something getting ugly, and if you feel your hackles raising, it is probably time to drop out of that thread, and cool off a bit. Go take a shower, split some wood, or even better - vent that mood by writing a letter to a politician!
So, if my 'vote' counts for anything, I'd say no need to change the structure of the forum software environment at all, remind folks to be nice once in awhile, and everybody give our moderators one heap of gratitude for doing the dirty work of reminding us, and of locking a topic when we all get out of hand.
Kind of like they're the sherrifs and we're the rowdy bar crowd...
I agree with Hobie on the need to spread political information - the Second Amendment essentially is "ON TOPIC" by its very nature, and whether we enjoy it or not or find it depressing sometimes, the political stuff HAS to be dealt with constantly.
Having said that, I agree that ALL posts should refrain from hostility and so on. That isn't too much to ask. I don't think the "rules" need changed though, because just like the TV, there is a channel (thread) selector, and you don't have to open threads you may be irritated by.
Ideally, we'd all be conscientious about using clearer topic descriptions than "Guess What...?" and using "OT" in the title for the non-lever-gun stuff, and, but really, if you just want to read about Winnies and Marlins, and you see a topic labeled "Best Barbeque Recipe," or "Why the Mayor is a Total Idiot," you might figure they aren't about leverguns. Just don't read them. Besides, is a topic on Revolvers "OT" or not, or just "Partly OT" - what if the revolver isn't in a levergun chambering? It could get pretty ridiculous if we micromanage it. Just read the titles of the posts...!
Personally, I know I am a newbie, but I am also a fairly frequent poster, and I don't find the restrictions overly strict (I've learned a couple of the 'words Daddy uses when he's doing plumbing or fixing the mower' I need to remember to avoid using, which is OK - as stated, it should be a 'family' friendly forum). I think forums with topics overly segregated are annoying though.
Think of it like this - a campfire on a wagon train or trail drive or some such. We all have our jobs each day to do, our own quirks to put up with, but we're all really on the 'same page' about most stuff. Most of the talk here centers around leverguns, but once in awhile someone's going to bring up another topic....
If you are interested in that topic, participate in the conversation, if not, that's a good time to go take a leak, check on your horse, or whatever. The next topic/thread may be of more interest.
As far as the 'tone' - there is a fairly easy difference between a 'heated' topic and 'personal attacks' - We've all been in situations where we just had to 'back off' to avoid something getting ugly, and if you feel your hackles raising, it is probably time to drop out of that thread, and cool off a bit. Go take a shower, split some wood, or even better - vent that mood by writing a letter to a politician!
So, if my 'vote' counts for anything, I'd say no need to change the structure of the forum software environment at all, remind folks to be nice once in awhile, and everybody give our moderators one heap of gratitude for doing the dirty work of reminding us, and of locking a topic when we all get out of hand.
Kind of like they're the sherrifs and we're the rowdy bar crowd...
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Want REAL change? . . . . . "Boortz/Nugent in 2012 . . . ! "
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This is it for me. Haven't ever taken time to feel out the others. No problem with the various contentious threads/users, I just ignore them.
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I am here atleast a few times every day. I do like to peruse RugerForum.com alittle every day, but, quite frequently do more reading than posting.
Other than that I don't belong to any other forums. I used to belong to TheRangerStation.com forum and Russian-Mosin-Nagant.com forum, but haven't posted in so long my accounts both died.
Other than that I don't belong to any other forums. I used to belong to TheRangerStation.com forum and Russian-Mosin-Nagant.com forum, but haven't posted in so long my accounts both died.
I visit a few others. I used to like this place, but it has gotten contentious lately. Lee Martin's Sixgun forum is thankfully still civil and respectful.
As for the OT posts here, I think they are OK if labeled as such, and I can ignore them or read them at my whim. I really do enjoy some of them.
I don't post much here, largely because I am not a rifleman of long experience; more of a sixgunner, with some experience with a few autopistols. My hunting experience is almost nil. I am here to learn about those things, and hope that when I retire, hopefully in my early to mid-50's, I will be fit and energetic enough to have a second childhood, and learn the stuff I missed earlier in life. I am grateful for the info I find here, and thank those who post about rifles and hunting.
Edited to add: Well, I hunt people, mostly at night, so I know a few things about hunting.
As for the OT posts here, I think they are OK if labeled as such, and I can ignore them or read them at my whim. I really do enjoy some of them.
I don't post much here, largely because I am not a rifleman of long experience; more of a sixgunner, with some experience with a few autopistols. My hunting experience is almost nil. I am here to learn about those things, and hope that when I retire, hopefully in my early to mid-50's, I will be fit and energetic enough to have a second childhood, and learn the stuff I missed earlier in life. I am grateful for the info I find here, and thank those who post about rifles and hunting.
Edited to add: Well, I hunt people, mostly at night, so I know a few things about hunting.
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The avatar is the menuki of my Rob Douglas Wakisashi.
Ruger forum, ( Have more Ruger's than anything else )
Hit the others if I have a specific questions pertaining to it.
( I did't want to get too Levergun 'OFF TOPIC " )
As to the Harley-Davadison's forum: MY WIFE BANDED ME FROM THERE !!!!!!
Says I'm to old, go play with your guns !!!
Gee's after 47 years you would think she would be more understanding..
Hit the others if I have a specific questions pertaining to it.
( I did't want to get too Levergun 'OFF TOPIC " )
As to the Harley-Davadison's forum: MY WIFE BANDED ME FROM THERE !!!!!!
Says I'm to old, go play with your guns !!!
Gee's after 47 years you would think she would be more understanding..
I go to specific forum for specific information. I used to be very interested in learning new information (to me) about leverguns. I also look for (or used to look for) specific info on S&W's, 1911's, motorcycles, trucks, ham radio, survival gear, etc.
I don't think I ever specifically went looking for a group of friends. Wouldn't have known what I was looking for, since I've never been much of a social person even in real life.
For a good while, though, this and one other site felt 'homey' to me, and I guess I'm like the 'houseguest that won't die'... I apparently got too comfortable and spouted about things I shouldn't have, and made myself unwelcome to the point where I noticed it.
And so, I don't really have a place to go now, I guess to say that rightly- I never did, but I didn't know it. Now I realize my ideas aren't as welcome as I think they would be, who knows the reason. Maybe I'm just a simpleton and my ideas aren't really as great as I think they are. Maybe I'm just not very good at getting my point across. Maybe there are those (tinfoil hat time) who believe my ideas need to be stifled.
Again, who knows. It doesn't matter. Apparently there was something therapeutic in the time I did spend here, because I've been able to stifle the need. Now I come read sometimes, and don't find the 'home' I used think it was. Has it changed, or have I? Again, who knows.
Frequently I'll type out a long response to some post that gets my attention for one reason or another... and then delete it immediately, or if I'm thinking straight, I'll just close the window without ever posting it. The point of the writing has now become, not passing information to you (unwelcome at best) but getting it out of my system.
SO I come here less often than before, and try to keep myself logged out so if I'm tempted to write, there's another layer of difficulty that might give me time to change my mind before it's too late.
After considerable thought, this time, I've decided to post this, but I'll probably be back in a minute to delete it.
I don't think I ever specifically went looking for a group of friends. Wouldn't have known what I was looking for, since I've never been much of a social person even in real life.
For a good while, though, this and one other site felt 'homey' to me, and I guess I'm like the 'houseguest that won't die'... I apparently got too comfortable and spouted about things I shouldn't have, and made myself unwelcome to the point where I noticed it.
And so, I don't really have a place to go now, I guess to say that rightly- I never did, but I didn't know it. Now I realize my ideas aren't as welcome as I think they would be, who knows the reason. Maybe I'm just a simpleton and my ideas aren't really as great as I think they are. Maybe I'm just not very good at getting my point across. Maybe there are those (tinfoil hat time) who believe my ideas need to be stifled.
Again, who knows. It doesn't matter. Apparently there was something therapeutic in the time I did spend here, because I've been able to stifle the need. Now I come read sometimes, and don't find the 'home' I used think it was. Has it changed, or have I? Again, who knows.
Frequently I'll type out a long response to some post that gets my attention for one reason or another... and then delete it immediately, or if I'm thinking straight, I'll just close the window without ever posting it. The point of the writing has now become, not passing information to you (unwelcome at best) but getting it out of my system.
SO I come here less often than before, and try to keep myself logged out so if I'm tempted to write, there's another layer of difficulty that might give me time to change my mind before it's too late.
After considerable thought, this time, I've decided to post this, but I'll probably be back in a minute to delete it.